Always know the doctor’s directions for wound care. The doctor will tell you if the person should shower or if it is ok to cleanse a wound. After cleansing a wound keep it clean and dry. (Check with the doctor to see if a special brand of soap / cleanser is to be used).
No, not unless the doctor orders it. Some doctors recommend use of a Vaseline type ointment to keep a suture line moist. Know what the doctor has ordered for the person you care for.
The person should not do any heavy lifting, sudden turning or twisting, or bearing down (such as during a bowel movement). These movements can cause a wound to reopen. As the wound begins to heal it may cause itching. Do not scratch the wound as it may damage the stitches or the wound.